2. No back biting

I call it a team-killer. The surest way to damage team spirit is convince members about backbiting. It is a proven method to wipe out a sense of belongingness in a team. Negative discussions and information exchange about those who are absent with irrelevant people result in further misunderstanding and conflicts. Meetings in the parking lot, cafeterias and health clubs provide an easy platform for backbiters to poison team spirit. These backbiters later on become backstabbers for their own team members.

If leaders sincerely wish their teams to be high-performing; they need to facilitate a culture of honest and open communication between members.

No blame game

Blame-game is the favorite sports of ineffective teams. Instead of taking responsibility of their actions and behaviors, members enjoy putting the blame on someone else’s shoulders.

This surly gives teams a temporary relief but injures performance in the longer run.

The antidote to blaming is accountability.  But why members chose blaming over accountability? Because when we take us to accountability; we have to embrace some pain. As human beings; we want to avoid pain at every cost. Therefore, blaming others emerges as an easy way out.  If teams continue to blame each other for their lack of performance, a big disaster is waiting for them.

Stop blaming, take responsibility.

3. No mocking or shouting

Leaders can’t afford to let anyone shout at other team members. Shouting is a sign of ignorance. When teams have answers they feel no need to shout. Teams should understand that the loudest voice may not be the wisest voice. Sarcastic remarks will only produce enmity between members. Enmity should be replaced with enormity; of ideas, reverence, performance and purpose.

4. No personal attacks

Teams are supposed to separate their egos from the professional job in hand. However, with no trouble, members slip in to personal stuff during meetings organized to discuss professional matters. Personal attack in a team setting is synonymous to slaughtering an individual’s team bond.  Whether privately or in public, attacking others directly doesn’t help teams achieve common goals.

I have noticed that even leaders sometimes start attacking your people without any prudent reason. I suggest leaders to hold on to their anger, stay calm and instead of attacking choose to coach and counsel people.

5. No burdens of the past

Successful teams and leaders don’t get stuck in the past. Commit yourself for no looking back to search each other’s weaknesses and putting others in a discomfited situation.  Past is history; we can’t edit it; change it; modify it; hide it; but at least we can learn from it.

One reason for team failure is the members’ unwillingness to forget the negativity, anger, and pain associated with the past. How can you allow your history devastate your future?

Building and sustaining teams is a tough job. Teams don’t come together effortlessly. Leaders have to invest time, effort and energy to bring the best in teams. One way of achieving this hard task is to develop the sensitivity to consistently say NO to the above behaviors.  Saying NO to these undesirable acts will prepare you to demonstrate strong willingness to say YES to a long lasting team success.

QAISER ABBAS

Qaiser is the Founder & Chief Inspiring Officer, Possibilities®, a leading management training & consulting company, operating globally with head office in Pakistan. He is the author of ‘Outclass Teams’, the first book on team-building written by a Pakistani author.

‘Outclass Teams’ is based on a team building model that Qaiser has been practically utilizing in building teams for various organizations such as P&G,  Nestle, Coca Cola, Ufone, Nokia-Siemens, Telenor, ORIX leasing, Total and Hino Pak Motors etc.  Qaiser Abbas